Rebecca Mead, the author of the article, stated that the well-known maxim, "It is never too late to be what you might have been," although long-attributed to George Elliot (aka Mary Ann Evans), apparently has no historical bearing with reference to her. Nowhere in her letters or writings can it be documented that she said this. In fact, it seems to be more in keeping with her writings and lifestyle that, if anything, she believed that just being who you are is enough. Unheralded, unspectacular, unnoticed. If you should think of doing something grand, and don't do it, so be it. In her journal entry she wrote, "The difficulty is, to decide how far resolution should set in the direction of activity rather than in the acceptance of a more negative state." Perhaps in my comings and goings, I would much prefer to have this second quote painted up, lacquered, and hanging on my kitchen wall rather than the first.
However, so as not to acknowledge my merciless/merciful state without deep gratitude, I submit the following photos of the last 74+ days.
I flew to TX for the funeral of Krista Ralston Oakes
Lynn Ralston Molohosky and me |
Christmas Eve
Mom with Eli, very excited for the next day |
Christmas Day
What do you get your Dad who needs nothing? Books! The Day After Christmas Celebrating with the Munns Second cousins, Samantha and Sawyer Joyful and triumphant |
Gallachers came for a few days in January
An early birthday celebration with Dad |
Dad's 96th Birthday
Disneyland with the Archibalds
So happy to be out of Minnesota |
Nannie Joy with her munchkins |
My Annie Jane |
My Jake Jordan |
My Sawyer Daniel |
My Juliette Joyce |
Chelsea Married Jim Flanagan
The Aftermath
Jordan's 33rd Birthday
Saying Goodby to Part of My Heart
Jim Got Baptized
A very wonderful day |
Okay, that's it. I'm done.
6 comments:
So glad to get the update and pictures. Love your captions!
Just happened to chek today and so glad I did. Thanks for keeping at it.
Oops - don't know how to fix my typo? Oh well, you get the message :)
Proud of you Joyce! I love a pictorial journal...... you are one beautiful woman with a lovely posterity to boot.
I love looking at your pictures! Thanks for sharing!
I never saw this one. I need all these pics. Looks like a whirlwind of 80 days. Wish I could of been there :)
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